Stress & Anxiety
Stress, anxiety & therapy: Finding your way back to you
Written by Jennifer Haden BA (Hons) Counselling & Psychotherapy - MBACP accredited
Published 6th November 2025
Stress and anxiety are part of being human. In small doses, stress can motivate us, sharpen our focus, and help us rise to challenges. But when stress becomes chronic or overwhelming, it can take a serious toll, physically, emotionally, and relationally. Anxiety may creep in quietly or arrive with intensity, leaving us feeling hypervigilant, exhausted, or disconnected from ourselves.
As an integrative counsellor, I support clients through both one-to-one sessions and group therapy, offering a gentle, trauma-informed space to explore what’s happening beneath the surface. Together, we look at how stress and anxiety show up in your body, your relationships, and your sense of self, and how therapy can help you move toward relief, clarity, and resilience.
The hidden cost of stress
Stress is not just “in your head.” The link between stress and heart disease is well established. When stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline surge through the body and aren’t used up through physical activity, they can raise our heart rate and blood pressure. Over time, this puts tension on our arteries and can cause damage to them.
Stress also weakens the immune system, making us more vulnerable to illness. It’s associated with digestive issues like IBS, stomach upsets, and ulcers, and can contribute to strokes, sleep problems, headaches, and chronic pain. Many people seek relief through dependencies, alcohol, food, screens, or other coping mechanisms, which can deepen the cycle of anxiety and low mood.
Depression is now the leading cause of sickness worldwide. It’s often intertwined with stress and anxiety, and can leave us feeling hopeless, disconnected, or numb. We may experience low self-worth, internalise negative messages, and lose our sense of identity. Therapy offers a space to gently untangle these patterns and begin to rebuild.
Burnout and rust-out: Two faces of stress
Stress doesn’t always look the same. For some, it leads to burnout, a state of hyperarousal, where the nervous system is constantly on high alert. You might feel overactive, unable to switch off, and emotionally drained. Others experience rust-out, where stress leads to lethargy, disconnection, and a sense of stagnation. Both states can be deeply uncomfortable and isolating.
Therapy can help you identify which stresses in your life are healthy and motivating, and which are depleting or harmful. We explore whether you have the right support around you, and what boundaries or changes might help you feel safer and more grounded.
The body remembers
Stress and anxiety often show up in the body long before we’re consciously aware of them. You might notice tension in your neck and shoulders, tight muscles that feel ready for action. Breathing may become faster and shallower. Blood sugar levels can rise. You may feel an urgent need to use the toilet, sometimes uncontrollably, which can be mistaken for bowel or bladder issues. Pain in the lower back may be misread as a water infection, when in fact it’s where the body is holding tension.
These physical symptoms are real and valid. They’re your body’s way of signalling distress. In therapy, we work gently with these sensations, helping you reconnect with your body’s wisdom and find ways to soothe and regulate your nervous system.
An integrative approach to healing
Integrative therapists, like myself, draw from a range of approaches to suit your unique needs. In my case, these include:
Person-centred therapy
A warm, non-judgmental space where you’re supported to explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace. You are the expert in your own life, and therapy is a collaborative process.
Psychodynamic therapy
We look at how past experiences and relationships may be shaping your current patterns, helping you gain insight and shift long-held beliefs.
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
Practical tools to challenge unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, and develop healthier coping strategies.
Somatic work
Gentle body-based techniques to help you notice and release tension, reconnect with your breath, and feel more present in your body.
This blend allows us to work holistically, honouring your emotional, psychological, and physical experiences. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, or simply feeling overwhelmed, therapy can help you make sense of what’s happening and find your way forward.
Group therapy and one-to-one support
In addition to individual sessions, some therapists may offer group therapy, a supportive space where you can connect with others who may be experiencing similar challenges. Group work can be incredibly validating, helping you feel less alone and more understood. It also offers opportunities for shared learning, reflection, and growth.
One-to-one sessions provide a more private and personalised space to explore your story. Whether you prefer the intimacy of individual work or the connection of group settings, we’ll find what feels right for you.
You are not alone
When we’re in emotional pain, everything can feel impossible. It’s hard to imagine things changing. But therapy offers a space to be seen, heard, and supported. You don’t have to carry it all alone.
Together, we’ll explore what’s weighing on you, what’s helped you survive so far, and what might help you thrive. We’ll look at the messages you’ve internalised, the parts of you that feel lost, and the strengths that are still quietly present.
Stress and anxiety are not signs of weakness; they’re signals that something needs attention. Therapy is one way to listen to those signals and begin to respond with care.
